How easy is it to torture someone? How easy is it to blackmail someone? How easy is it to make a person’s life hell? How easy is it to take advantage of someone’s situation? To harass someone? To hit someone? To leak someone’s personal information?


Every day we come across various cases of violence – mental or physical. The victim of such circumstances can be a girl, boy, man or a woman.

Recently, I met someone who was a constant bully of home violence. She was beaten up on a regular basis. She is not allowed to step outside without permission. He’s an Insecure Pig.

Another one got choked by a man for taking a stand for herself and her life. He’s on a heartbreak cycle.

One more is getting harassed by a man. This man keeps uploading her private images to the great world wide web. And he thinks he is brilliant. He’s on a revenge cycle.

One girl was forced into prostitution. He was on some other trip.

Let me clear, here by chance all the victims are women, but I have seen men victims too.

Also, this letter does not intend to hurt anyone’s feeling, emotions, culture, cast, creed, nor does it offend any particular gender.

While I came across all of the above cases, the victims had one thing in common – they were being weak. They cried when they were saying what happened/ is happening to them.

I am not saying crying is bad. Please go ahead and vent it all out. But do not self-pity, do not think that you are weak, do not feel that no one will understand, do not believe that you cannot take a step, do not think that there is no door to get out of this.

My dear victim,

I pity your situation. I feel bad. I want to take you out of that position. But I and my actions will help you out only if, you take your stand. I know it takes a lot of guts to face the family, friends and the world and to love oneself. But if there is anyone who can help you at an initial stage is YOU.

So cutting it short, please take stand for yourself, rest will follow. Sitting and crying over your miserable life won’t help anyone. Rather it will give the satan – more courage to continuing doing such stuff.

My Dear Wrongdoer/Sinner,

Yes, you got me right if you are reading this. If you beat someone up, or harass anyone or continuously do something that’s against the law. It’s wrong and unlawful. You are satan. You might be an insecure pig, or a person out on revenge, or heartbroken, or any x y z.. nothing ever gives you right to intrude and invade and mentally or physically harass someone. You do such things and then try to justify your actions. Trust me it’s of no use.

This is an open letter to all of you out there. Please take stand for yourself. It’s high time you, me and everyone else to stand for someone who needs it and for yourself. Wheather you know or do not know a person it doesn’t matter, helping someone out in a time of misery won’t make you feel bad. Stop thinking about how to save your ass, instead let’s all get together and take action against such pigs.

Here I am not asking you to please like or share this post. I request you all to spread this word. To not let anyone be a victim of violence and harassment. Some people need a push to gather courage. Be that push!

Motivation Behind This Letter: The one with the revenge feels. A jerk who has been continuously creating a fake Instagram profile under someone’s name and misusing/mishandling the account. And we are taking a stand against this one. WILL YOU?


What I Wore – Convocation 2018

Hey, there all you lovelies!! Welcome to my page. This blog is about a day in my life, and it’s a short one. But before I start, thank you all of you for showering me with appreciations and love for my last blog – Road Trip To Munnar.

Last weekend I was in Jaipur – The ‘Gulabi’ City. Why was I there – For My Convocation. It was a fun-filled, less sleep three day trip to Jaipur with friends who are family. It’s not a travel blog because I went there just to chill. (more…)

Road Trip to Munnar


Hey you guys!! Happy New Year!! I hope you all are doing good. I am good too. Today I am here with all of you to share my first travel blog. I have promised myself to make 2018 a travel year. And that’s how I kick-started my New Year 2018.

I wish I could have vlogged this, but I didn’t take my camera with me. Also, I had no plans to write about this place, but then I thought that I should.


18 Things To Do In 2018 <3

18 Things To Do In 2018

Hello All of You!! We are in the last week of the year. It’s time we promise to our self a lot of things. But I have curated a list of 18 things or maybe just habit changes, which you can teach yourself. These changes are so basic that one must do it. No matter it’s what time and date. Some of you might be doing these points already, but here is my take on this: (more…)


Olaa Guys!! Christmas is in the neighbourhood and we are all prepping up for it. In the midst of these holidays and party preparations, I think it is time you wake that creative kid of you.
Receiving a handmade gift from someone is Novelty these days. Homemade things have something extraordinary about them. So while you can quickly go over to some, add something to your cart, and proceed towards payment, how about indulging in some fun activity and create something yourself?? Sounds fun right?? It is!!

So Yesterday, which was Sunday, I took out some time from my daily routine and made this so pretty and beautiful two-fold card for my friends, colleagues and families in hardly one hour.

Here is how you can make one too:

1. Get up, and go to Market.
2. Enter a Super Market, or a Stationary Shop, or Craft Shop.
3. Get hold of a good quality chart papers or A3/A2 size paper.
4. Choose any color that you are ready to play with. I chose yellow, pink and white!!
5. Don’t forget to buy any of these if you do not have them at home:
– sketch pens,
– color pencils,
– marker,
– scissors,
– sparkle sheets & pen
– fevistick / glue
– nutella (you will need it for your stomach to come up with some ideas) (this is optional)
6. Now sit down, and start cutting the paper of your preferred shape & size, mine is a rectangle.
7. I made two rectangles, white and yellow, white rectangle slightly larger in length horizontally.
8. Now cut merry Xmas or Christmas as per your choice from the chart paper of your fav font style. I chose white for this.
9. Decorate the card as much and more you want, and be as creative as you can be. Fill in the first page; it is your canvas.
10. For the inside layer, I put small stripes in two different colors, in a triangle shape, made a little tree and hat for the Christmassy feel.
11. Voila, my card is ready and so is yours!!
12. You can stitch or stick the two layers.
13. Flaunt this card in front of everyone and bring smile and happiness to faces.

Virushka 😍

Virat Kohli and Anushka Sharma are married and they look like a dream 😍 

I am an emotional fool. I have always believed in true love, I believe in the institution of marriage, I believe that one day it will all look like a dream, like them. 

Like every fan girl, this was a much awaited moment for me. For a week I have been telling my friends, ” stay updated on Instagram on Facebook, the pictures will be out anytime.” 

Like a true believer I was praying every moment that news isn’t fake. Like a media I stalked every news bit by bit, to give peace to my mind, that this is happening 😍

I don’t know if you feel this or not, but feel elated if two people, who are madly in love are together, especially when they flaunt it proudly. 

A happy celebration kinda feeling is rushing inside me, like it’s new year already. Like every media house, I got the same images, but they are worth it, the images 😍

Look at them holding hands 😍  #virushkaweddimg #viruska #viratkohli #anushkasharma

P = P O W E R D R E S S I N G

Hello, all of you!! If you have been reading all of my fashion glossary blogs, then I know that you know that P is nowhere near to J ( my last article was on J = Jackets on the go!!)

I thought let’s not make it monotonous, and start covering the rest of them in jumbled order, as I like and as you suggest.

So here it is, my first take on ‘P = Power Dressing’.

Here’s my take on P O W E R D R E S S I N G.

Power Dressing is a way of styling your ensemble for a professional environment. For years this style was a man dominated fashion, but no more.

When women were creating their space in the corporate world, so did their outfit and wardrobe. This outfit was designed to fit in, to feel empowered and look powerful.

Today if we see the stats, women have taken over quite a percentage of the corporate section, and this fashion statement has always worked as a cherry on the top.

So make your workwear your armour – this also gives you a reason to indulge in some shopping. Wear it and experience a sense of liberation.


Stay tuned for more love to come your way!! 😍😍
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J = Jackets on the Go!!

Jackets – A staple from your Wardrobe that you can wear 365 days in a year (That’s one year!!) 

Own 10 JACKETS or just 1, they go with most of your outfits 😍 Most Reliable and Trendy part of our wardrobe!! Woo your viewers, mates and everyone throughout the year with different shades of jackets 😍

Layer Your jacket over a bralette, tank top, t-shirt, or go jacket over a jacket over one more jacket, they never go wrong. As I am writing this, so many different types of jacket names are coming in my mind. So let’s get started without further ado (or before I get confused) –

1. The Leather Jacket –

One fashion statement that has remained with us right from 70’s to 90’s to today is this. Any Day and Every Day 😍 There are different colours available in the market, but the black leather jacket, it has something extraordinary about it.


2. The Suede –

No matter what are you wearing, just suede it!! And my fav is brown. Any shade of brown goes more than perfect with your outfit (Any Outfit)

3. The Belted Trench-

Enhance your outfit with a belted coat, effortless and chic style!! This hip-length beauty looks best with shorts and boots 😍 While you scroll down below you will not find any.

4. The Biker Jacket-

Knitted Biker Jackets are a sure shot to keep yourself trendy this season and to come. Style it with a pair of jeans and t-shirt with casual shoes. Comfortable and snug fit is the word.

Keep reading for more 😍

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